
Ok, I know I never normally write about guys, dates or my relationships....its just been something I ve kept private. I get a lot of mail and messages asking me what I m looking for, and many of you write me so incredible nice words.....I want you to know, that I always read all my messages, and really appreaciate them.
When it comes to men, I have always put my career first, all my life I think men and dating came last on my list of important things in life, it was not that I didnt dream about someone, it was just with my lifestyle of travelling and constant working, partys and always being surronded by a lot of people it didnt fit in. I have dated some of the most amazing men, and I mean that, I really have met some of the best men in the world, intelligent, goodlooking, kind and ambitious treating me like a princess. Unfortently with the focus being on my career and not on them it was hard to give what they deserved from a relationship, and I think I often somehow forced a break up because I was confused and didnt know how to open up and stay close to other people because of my lifestyle of constant travel, working all over the world and never meet the same people twice.

Thankfully things have changed a little lately.....I have done more things in my career than I ever dreamt about, and I finally feel that now I have the space and time to set a man first in my life, its a very good feeling :-) But guys, you have to step it up...
Some NO ! NOs!
There are to many lazy guys who think that a video and pizza in his place will be good enough for a first date......IT is NOT, that is something you can do with your buddies!
or what about the drunken guys in the club who tell you that they loooooove you so much, that you are the most amazing girl ever and then ask you to buy the next drink before they walk of snogging the cashier girl from the local shop......
The guys who ask you out in their boat, but ask you to pay for the gasoline.......
The guys who always just "forget" their wallet or card when you are out for dinner......
Its my birthday, and we have dated for some time, and all you do is sending a lousy sms, saying Oh its your birthday, happy birthday .........If you would like to keep a girl, NEVER forget her birthday, it doesnt have to be an expensive present, but make sure its a day she wont forget, or I promise you, she ll be out of your life before you can say, SORRY !
Some of you guys proberly think you look like the Marlboro man when you havent shaved for a week....trust me, unless you are a supermodel, it wont suit you !!!! Go and shave before a date!
Then there are the guys who try to play it all so casual so they dont change their clothes after cooking dinner or having a few beers with the guys.....trust me, smelling of pizza and beer is not SEXY
Drunk guys who tries to grab on you, and when you push them away they try to grab on your girlfriends.....NOT GOOD !
Of course you also have the guys who sit down and write almost a book about themself, copy and paste it and send it to every single model on facebook.....Guys come an, dont you think we girls talk togheter ?!
Or the guys who chat you up on facebook, you have never met them, never talked to them, and they are telling you how much they love you and think you should meet......they dont even know in what country you are living in or what nationality you are: "I really like your profil picture, girl you are hot, lets meet up and grab a burger ! " Do I even have to say anything about this one.....trust me, I receive at least 50 messages a week thats just like that....

Then there are the guys who only send you a sms a day, and expect you to be all overwhelmed and ready to meet them when they have time to finally see you....Guys, what you give is what you get! If you play it cold, you will have a very cold bed to come home to!
Or the guy who takes you out on a date, goes up in the bar, buys a drink for himself and gets you NOTHING...
Then one of my least favorites: The wannabe hunks who starts sending you pictures of themself with NO clothes, again, they might never have met you or never talked to you, but still they send you a complete nude picture of themself....and how many others do you think they have sent that to before you ??? Guys, that is such a TURN OFF, keep that for when you are in a relationship.
Or the guys who think that sending a picture of their bicep, sixpack or any other bodypart they are happy with.....Come an, let me experience your body for myself in real life, OK ?
The TV guys: Their life is waking up in the morning, go to work, come home, put the TV on, have a bit sex, then watch TV again....TV and Sofa at least five days a week, and you know what, they wouldnt even notice if you wherent there sitting on the sofa next to them......
Men sweat, its not true that women like men who smell like cavemen! Always shower and put on a really good perfume, dont ask, just DO IT :-)))
The guys who says:" Lets meet next week"....next week comes, and you hear nothing before 23 pm Sunday Eve....ehhh do you want to come over for a movie ? No, I ve waited all week for you to call me, buying new clothes and preparing for a nice date...... and to be honest, I dont want to ever hear from you again....got the point ? Treat me with respect and be concrete.
The X FACTOR, No, I m not your ex, and I dont really care about your ex, if you got luggage, dont bring it into my life.
Guys who tell the same stories over and over again, and dont remember that they already told it to you three times before.....I might giggle the first two times, but please.......
The play it hard to get guys....I hear nothing from you, well do you really think I ll hunt you down if you show no interest ? If you want me, you have to show me A LOT of interest.
Ha ha I could go on, but if you think you could pass on these, you should at least be one step closer to doing the right thing ;-) All these experiences are based on episodes in my life, and a lot of them from my last date, who got DISMISSED ;-)